Hayu urang cacaritaan…

why does getting married becoming so important for society?

why, when there a couple who had their relationship for years with only a lover status, then there will be people talk bad things about them?
that they had doing forbidden stuff, like have sex and so on.

how do those people know that the couple had did that?
do they sneak the couple up?

ch, hypocrites!

pic is from here

dunno why. just feeling bored lately. by the announcements for the closing of this magz within three moths *it should be less than 2 months now* things become extremely different. the atmosphere at the office. the atmosphere when you do the work *either at office or field* becoming sooooo different. and its tiring me badly. and also makes this bored thing appear.

anyway, i just got a call to drink some medicine for Filariasis. no, i dont detected to get caught by the virus. it’s a kind of prevention that my goverment especially on health department gave to us, their citizen, here in Indonesia. as the issue of the spread of virus the filariasis is getting hotter and wider for West Java and Banten. and since i live in Bogor, which is part of West Java, so i got the call.

thanks for that, my government!

ahh, still bored! dunno what to do! lots of task to do. but have no idea of how to make it true i know. i am stupid for that reason. but what can i say. it is how i feel about the work here. and i’m extremely tired with all this stupid conversation about how to increase the circulation of the magazine. bcoz, they never listen to what the editorial staff said for the effort! they just blame it to us, the editorial staff! ngehe!

just wanna ask you this question,

why does men always stradding their leg when they’re sit? is it because they’re affraid that there’s something will be hurt if not sit stride? or else?

hope you dont mind answering my question :p

girls can answer if you know the answer

will be verdicted on the following three months, since May. Wether I can still work here as a reporter. Or I got to evacuate since this magz will be CLOSED!!!

Well, here’s life on media bussiness. I you cant keep or increase your total printing, then get ready to roll the mat a.k.a get out of the bussiness! *and sadly, everytime the total printing get decrease, it is always the editorial staff who got verdicted! oh, please! dont you realize that you have the same big mistakes?! X(*

Please pray for me if the bad things happened, then I can still survived with a new job on my hand. *for that reason, if you have any job information can you please tell me… haqhaqhaq*

Please pray for this magz to be able to survive and pass the very critic time along this following three months. *for that reason, can you please buy our magz… it is available at the agent, bookstores, and hypermaprts nearby your neighborhood in Indonesia! haqhaqhaq*

I met Mr.X once again!

Its been for two days I keep met Mr.X *FYI, if you dont know who the hell is Mr.X, he is someone from the past who had been accompany me to live those beautiful days in the past after highschool graduate* Of course, we met on the beloved Jabotabek economi train! Well, I haven’t met him since err… two months ago or something! I thought he had quit from the job in order to finish his thesis on college. But he’ not. he still worked at that office as a freelancer.

Hehehe… is it always be like that or its just a coincidence? He looks handsomer than the last time I met him. Fresher, since he cut his hair neat. Or perhaps becoz he wore casual shirt and jeans? For all this time I always met him with he wearing those official office worker uniform with a neat and tidy shirt and cotton trousers. Haha… I dont know!

Anyway, what made me wanted to post this is becoz, everytime we are going to separate *on the train I mean, he got off on Kalibata while me on Tebet which separated two stations* it always that song played on my MP3.

Yupz, Gemala’s song entitled Beda.

oh biar cintaku, ku dengan jalanku
lihat ceria sisi dunia yang terbentang untuk kita
anggap sajalah aku persinggahan untukmu
temani hari-hari yang kini tlah menyemu

Oh let my love, I am with my way
look the cheers side of the world spread for us
take me only as ur harbour
to accompany living this cloudy days
[okay, the translation was awful]

Confue with the lyrics?

the philosophy is, I think the song represent me and him at that time *when we were on the train, Okay its not so that =P* Its on the lyrics “Oh biar cintaku, ku dengan jalanku” Well, let me be on my way who will get off on Tebet Station to go to my office and blogging and I wil let him be on his way to get off at Kalibata Station to go to his office to work as a freelancer.

Then the lyrics “Anggap sajalah aku persinggahan untukmu” are also represented. Coz the *perhaps* nostalgic meeting would only be a transit for both of us. I transitted to greet him so that I can pay what I had done before to him *I’m not that cruel actually* And he transitted to greet me so that he could see what I had done before is a right thing to do *I hope* Alrigh, alright… this definition is too persisting! Yes, I know that!

One more my unpatterned analysis to fit this song with the meeting is on the lyrics “Tuk temani hari hari yang kini tlah menyemu” Err… what am I going to talk about this? My relationship with Gentong isnt in a mien state *if you want to relate it with this thing* and then, my social life with my neighborhood either at home or office are also in a good condition. Haqhaqhaq… so I dont have any analysis for this lyric! ^^v

Oh, well… if continue this then it would just make my grumbling and very wrong analysis about this song become long on this page. But the song is great na? So mellow… Can be used for weekend! Qiqiqiq….

Alright then, happy weekend, fellas!
Cheers ~

PS. Want to listen the song? you can played it in here or download it from here.
PS (lagi). Indonesian version of this post is in here.

That is what I think recently. Few days ago, someone from an event organizer called me and asked me to be their respondent for their research. I was a bit doubt at first. Coz I dont have much knowledge about kids’ world *though I am working on a kids magazine* However, I said yes and agreed to meet their researcher here at my office yesterday.

Its kinda new for me as for usual, it is me who interviewed a respondent for my articles. But yesterday, it was me who got interviewed as a respondent. Eventhough the interview isn’t for publication.

And I say the interview was not easy. Since it is me who usually found some questions to be asked. But yesterday, I had to find the answers for their questions. Thankfully, I could anwers all of their questions. But perhaps I gave a very silly answer :p

Fiuhh..
Its been such a very long time not posting here. Yeah, I was so lazy to update it. Dont know why.
But from now on, I made my promise to keep this blog updated. This is officially! =D

I was calling for someone tho do a help for me this morning. He’s one of my closest person. I do always asked for this help to him recently. And now, I need his help for one more time. But then, he hang up my phone call before I finshed my talk. Though, I have told him what I wanted him to do. Then, I send him an sms saying what kind of help that I want from him once again ith the details.

When I arrived at my office this morning, my cellphone ring and there’s an sms from him. He didnt straightly saying that he cant or doesnt want to help me. But what he said on that sms is explicitly saying that stuff. Its okay for me if his words didnt hurt me. But it did.

He wrote things including some stuff about my family. He’s saying that my family had always had a very bad condition just exactly like what I was asked to him this morning. Saying bad about my family, huh? Of course I am mad!!

I just dont understand why should he did that to me? If he cant help me, he can just say “sory, I cant help you this time”, cant he? He doesnt have to say bad things about my family, doesnt he?

I send a reply to him though. A bit mad, saying that I dont like him saying bad about my fams. He replied me, I replied him… but he never say “I am sorry”

While, I’ve said sory for disturbing him with my order. He didnt say sorry for telling me bad things about my fams!

I dont know what should I do. I do care for him. He is my best friend. He always there when I was on a bad situation. But he told bad things to me about my family just now. A very bad thing that hard to forget and forgive.

That is what I keep asked to since yesterday untill today.
Why do I asked about that? Coz, I feel so weird with those who sees me waving the handy-fan.

Since semak’s comming to Bogor made many main streets in Bogor to be sterilized, I was forced to take the bus rute [not the beloved economic train as usual]. On the way home, I took the 47AC bus to UKI. As its name, the bus has air conditioner. But, since I didn’t get a seat then I just standing between the seats.

When you’re standing between seats in the bus, eventhough it is a bus which has air conditioner on it, and there’s a very heavy traffic jam, you’ll feel really hot!! [on its real definition]
That’s excactly what happened to me yesterday.

I felt so hot being in that bus, eventhough the AC was on. At first, I decided not to get my handy-fan out from my bag [since, I knew that I was being in an AC bus]. But then, I saw a lady swinging her handy-fan and feel the freshness of the air from the handy-fan. Feeling jealous with the lady, I took my handy-fan out of my bag and start swinging it in front of me. Aaa…hhh…. it’s so cool and nice!!!

But then, the old man in front of me commented the act! He said something like this, “you’re in an AC bus, why did you should swing your fan?”

Aaaarrrggghhh!!! I hate that old man! Yes, I was IN an AC bus!! But it didn’t mean that I don’t have to feel hot while I’m standing between seats and the bus is caught on a very heavy traffic jam!! He could feel the coolness of being on the bus since he get the seat! Well, I didn’t!!

Besides, is that any wrongness of swinging your fan in an AC bus?

That’s not the end of the sory, I ‘m affraid must say.
Today, I took the beloved economic train. Thankfully, I got the seat. At first, there was no one standing in front of me. Then, when the train was on Cilebut station, there was a man standing there. He’s not too old, I guess he’s about 40-something. He was standing there reading his newspaper. And I was sitting there swinging my fan because, again, I feel so hot. [since the window coldn't be opened then no air waving me if I don't swing my fan]

At first, he read his newspaper nicely there. But then, he looked at me with a complain in his eyes. I don’t understand why! My fan DID NOT touch his hands or newsaper. Why he should act like that?

See, I don’t bother them physically with my fan, right? I don’t touch ther body with fan or with my move while swinging the fan. I don’t bother them with the air caused by my movement on swinging the fan! So why should they act that sinically???!!! Are they jealous coz I have a fan while they’re not??

Get real, men!

1. The doctor told me that I have to be surged to get this illness away. But I canceled it since I’m still trying alternative medicine [traditional medicine]

2. This morning, my mom told me to take the surgery option. She believes the traditional medicine I take will cure me. But she wants it [the lump] to be taken aay from my body. “For your future,” she said.

3. I’m so sleepy right now since last night that insomnia attacked me once again! I can’t sleep until 2 o’clock this morning. [and have to wake up at 5.30 am!]

4. I miss Gentong so much! Wanna share him lots of stories… that phone thing couldn’t make me able to talk freely with Gentong!

5. My money on my purse is getting minus… I hope I still can make it ’till the end of this month. [at least 'till the pay day :p]

6. Having to handle two blogs making me stressed out! Since I don’t have many things to talk to right now… T_T